Happy Hump Day Guys!
In a recent conversation I had with a girlfriend, we discussed how surprisingly common it is for women to NOT have an orgasm during sex which is so unfortunate! So, I thought it would be interesting to do a post on it. As we know, women are internal creatures vs men being external. So as far as sex it's a bit more complicated for some women to reach that orgasm. This doesn't mean necessarily that the man isn't doing something right, it's really all about position and patience!
Courtesy of Cosmopolitan.com, take a look at the top 7 positions that are known to help women reach that big (O)rgasm!!
The Criss-Cross Applesauce (O)
The Lusty Lap Dance (O)
This one's always a favorite :) — he sits and you straddle him so you're face-to-face. You have a lot of control over the speed, angle, and motion because you can use your arms and legs to help you maneuver. Rather than just moving up and down, which can be especially tiring for you, sway forward and back, rubbing your clitoral area against him. In addition to the freedom of movement, there are a few other benefits to this booty move. If you lean back just a little bit, you'll get greater G-spot stimulation and he'll be able to play with your clitoris. Plus, your breasts will be perfectly aligned with his mouth, adding a whole other layer to the sexual experience.
The Spooning (O)
Obviously, you know emotional attachment is essential to achieving orgasm with your guy. And there's no configuration that's more snugly than the spoon. To assume the position, simply lie on your side, your guy scooted up behind you. Rather than move in and out, he should stay inside you, gently thrusting against the front wall of your vagina. Aside from fulfilling your cuddly needs, it provides consistent stimulation to your G-spot, which is key for achieving orgasm from intercourse. Since he may not be able to penetrate you as deeply though, guide his hand around your hot spot. And just think: Once you've both climaxed, you'll be in perfect post coital position as well.
The Slow Climb (O)
You'll never see missionary position the same way again. While on your back, put a pillow under your butt, lift your hips, and bring your legs up and back toward your shoulders, as though you're folding in half. This move allows him better ease of thrusting and deeper penetration — a perk for both of you. Plus, it can stimulate your G-spot. But consider this a warm-up — you're getting the zone primed for a more intense orgasm. Once your G-spot feels sufficiently stroked, put your legs down and have him get into coital-alignment-technique (CAT) position. He's on top, but he lifts his pelvic bone upward, aligning it with your clitoris. Then he rocks against the area until you peak. The legs-up position is a slow burn that brings you to the brink and increases sensitivity. Then the addition of clitoral rubbing takes you over the edge in a bigger way than if you had done CAT alone.
The Doggy Style (O)
You've probably tried an all-fours pose before (at least, we hope you have!). But while mentally the doggie-style position has great bad-girl benefits, in order to make it actually orgasmic, you may need to modify it a bit. Lie on your stomach, lifting your butt slightly so he can enter you. Your partner can prop himself up with his hands in a push-up position or lie on top of you. Not only does this face down configuration provide increased friction as he moves in and out, but you can gently grind your clitoral area against the bed as well.
The Giddy Up (O)
Girl-on-top tends to be a go-to for achieving orgasm...and for good reason! It allows you to dictate the pace and depth of thrusting, but mainly, you have easy access to your clitoris. You can touch your C-spot, have him touch it, or rub against his pubic bone to achieve orgasm. But you can up the ante by literally pulling a 180. Twist around so you're pointed toward his feet in reverse cowgirl position. Instead of straddling him, put your legs together, feet flat between his legs. The benefits of this are twofold: With your legs together, the fit is even tighter, making the sensations more intense. Plus, there's increased G-spot stimulation, which combined with your own clitoral strokes, makes for an explosive orgasm.
Last but NOT least...The Right Minded (O) Getting In The Zone
When it comes to achieving supreme pleasure, being in the right mind-set is half the battle!