6 Ways To Enjoy Valentine's Day At Home With Little to No Money

With this being the beginning of February, and the day known for lover's is approaching... I thought I'd share a couple ways to enjoy even if you have little to no money to spare!

I can only speak for myself, but the older I get it becomes more about the sentiment itself instead of the actual gift or amount of money spent! With that being said, it takes nothing to show your love for that special someone in your life! 

Take a look below for a few cute ideas....

1. Have a "home spa night"!! Fun right?? I mean who doesn't love a spa day??!?!! Spa's can be pretty pricey at times depending on the service/treatment you may get so why not bring the ambiance into your home. All you need are a few things: Candles, aromatics, massage oil, fruit, wine or champagne and relaxing music!! The candles and aromatics will surely help set the mood. The massage oil is for you guys to get your masseuse skills up :)! The fruit of course is accompanied by the wine. And the music.... well that's just the cherry on top!!! 
2. Make a "why I love you list"!! Be creative though!! Not any old pen to paper list... BORIIIING! Instead of writing it on paper, do a cute, sexy voice recording! It's 2016 and I'm sure if it's not 100%, it's definitely 99% of us that have smart phones which are equipped with many apps you can play with or simply use the "voice memos" on your smart phone. By your special someone hearing your voice & your emotion.... makes your expression of love that much more special :)!!! After recording yourself, surprise them by sending it via text randomly without telling him it's coming. Make sure you're next to them when they read it so you can see their raw reaction! If you do it right...the ending will be GREAT! TRUST ME!
3. Create a special signature drink together!! Depending on your taste of wine, champagne or alcohol will determine the price you spend. But, this can be pretty fun. Simply pick up some of your fav drinks and experiment. Whichever concoction you guys like most, name it and voila....that's your signature drink!
4. Have a fun, flirty, sexy, photo shoot!! Yessssss ladies!!! This is by far one of my fav things to do! I've mentioned this before and it deserves mentioning again because you just cant go wrong! This is probably thee cheapest of all things on this list because literally all you need is a few perks that you already have on hand. Those things being: a camera, his fav pump/heel he likes to see you in, a fun and open attitude with no ceilings (meaning the word NO does NOT exist during this particular photo shoot), Of course music, drinks and candles can be added for ambiance and last but not least.... you MUST not forget the body oil!!!! Put everything on, and call in him the room so he can flick away!! Trust me, this is soooo much fun. Not sure how long this photo session will last before another "session" begins.... *wink-wink*!!
5. Dance the night away!! Simple yet soooo much fun! Go to one of those novelty stores like Spencer etc. and buy a disco ball. They have smaller ones that can be placed on your table top/night stand etc. These are so much fun because they not only create an illusion that you're in a club, lounge or party, they also help with the ambiance. If you've read any of my post before then you know I say all the time - ambiance makes EVERYTHING better! The music sounds better and makes dancing much more fun!! So get to it! Pour up your drink, put on some music, turn the lights down, plug it up and dance the night away!
6. My last fun and flirty idea to enjoying Valentine's Day with little to no money is simple- buy your fav drink (if you drink), turn off the t.v., and just talk to one another. Truly enjoy each other's presence. Talk about how you guys met, your first date, relationship goals, play truth or dare etc. The list is endless!!!! 

SN: Please keep in mind that Valentine's Day doesn't just have to be about lovers!! It's about sharing love PERIOD! So if you know someone whom may be single... share your love with them too. Bringing laughter or a smile to someones day may just be the sunshine on a cloudy day they needed!! You never know how you can brighten one's day simply by being kind!!

Hope you guys enjoyed this small list of ways to enjoy Valentine's Day at home with little to no money. If you still need more ideas on how to spend Valentine's Day at home, click on the "Love-Sex & Everything In Between" tab and see if anything fits your fancy there :)!

As always... Thanks for checking out my blog: TwithTally!

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Does Size Matter.....Of The Ring That Is?

This blog post came about from a conversation I had with a girlfriend yesterday, which was interesting and hilarious might I add because we shared two different views and opinions on this topic! 

My opinion was no, not at all while her opinion was yes, it does matter. To each his own right? Well, I say no for several reasons. I think the size of the ring shouldn't be a concern AT ALL!! Now I don't know...maybe it's just me, maybe I'm just old school, maybe I'm just not that self-centered to be focused on something so small when I already have the BIG prize....his heart!!! That's just my thought.

While a huge ring would be awesome and of course beautiful, it would NOT matter in the least bit nor would it determine if I could or would marry him.

Women block blessing all the time because we allot of times are worried about what "society" may think. Society can be family, friends and even people who know nothing about you. When in reality, you should care about if he makes you happy, if he's committed to you and your relationship, if he has your back, if he supports your dreams, if he's your biggest fan, if he's a doer and not a talker, and over all if he's somebody that ultimately makes your world better!!! THAT'S what matters ....not the size of the ring!

If your man is ring shopping for you then that means he holds you higher than any other woman he's dated prior to you and wants to make you his wife! Isn't that enough? I'm sure he wants the best for you and would do all that he could to get you the best ring he could afford! So, if goes out and gets a ring that's not of your standards aka big enough, then chances are he probably couldn't afford it at that time. Now, if he has it financially to buy a huge ring then cool....of course, by all means that's great! But if he cant, don't criticize or think less of him because the ring isn't the ring of your dreams! Again, your focus should be on the fact that he loves you enough to put a ring on it!

In conclusion to my opinion....remember the ring is just a symbol of unity! The size of the stone doesn't determine the marriage. But, some women like my girlfriend, seem to believe that his love is determined by the size of the ring he buys. So basically, the bigger the stone - the better the marriage? I think NOT!! But again, this is just my opinion! There are soooooo many women walking around with big rocks and empty hearts! Who wants that? That ring is all some women have. If you have true love, the size of the ring wont matter to you. If the love is genuine and loyal...who freaking cares? Women are always saying it's hard to find a good man, yet when some have one they allow "society" (aka friends, family or foe) to tell them how it should be! Stop worrying about impressing the next! Stay true to yourself and the love of your life! Don't miss out on happiness because of the "material haves and have nots"! 

Unconditional love is the greatest blessing to experience. I'm thankful that I have the husband I have. Loyal, kind, caring, appreciative, attentive, supportive, my biggest fan, and best friend. I told him when he proposed...I would've said yes with a rubber band because I have never experienced love on this level and I wouldn't trade it for the world! 

So, what do you think? Does the size of the ring really matter? Does the size determine the amount of love he has for you? How do you feel, let me know!

Until next time and as always...Thanks for checking out my blog: TwithTally!

Is It Okay To Send Him Nude Pics???

There is no wrong or right answer to this question! When sending nude pics, it can be very tricky! This is a "to each his own" type of thing. What I will say is, if ever sending nude pics or even sexy pics for that matter, be very selective as to whom you choose to send them to. We've all heard the horror stories of pics or videos getting leaked to the Internet, sent to their friends, or the infamous "my phone got stolen".

There's really no way to escape that "what if" horror so the only thing you can do is know who you're dealing with and I mean REALLY know. I personally don't think its a good idea to send explicit pics or videos to someone new in your life. That key word "new" says it all. If it's new then you're still learning one another which means there hasn't been enough built to establish trust just yet. If he doesn't know you on a personal level, how do you expect him to value you on a personal level? 

Now, don't get me wrong I don't think there's anything wrong with sending pics or videos to your guy, just make sure it's the right guy! Sexy pics and or videos can help spice things up!! The anticipation of seeing you will be crazyyyyy-lol! 

So to sum it up, I personally don't think there's anything wrong with sending nude or sexy pics. You can always crop your face out for that "just in case" moment. But, keep in mind...if that relationship goes sour and the two of you ever split-- those pics and or videos are his to keep. So, if you do choose to send your guy some sexy mail, make sure it's what YOU want to do and not just something you're doing for him. 

Until next time and as always...Thanks for checking out my blog: TwithTally!

Vagazzling = Vagina Bling!!

Have you "Vagazzled" yet?

In case you're wondering, Vagazzling is just a fancy word for Vagina Bling! Yup, you read it right...bling for your "lady part"! This is the latest buzz/trend that a lot of women are trying out for their special someone or themselves even. 

How it works:

The service is performed by a trained/licensed esthetician who decorates your "lady part" with stick on Swarovski crystals into whatever shape you like such as butterflies, hearts a name etc., you say it they'll do it! The cost for the procedure is about $50 depending on the spa of course! Now, a lot of people are probably thinking... "Why would I pay $50 for some crystals to be stuck on me"? Well, it's totally up to you and your preference! To me, it's just another fun way to add some spice and let's not forget the element of suprise for your special someone! According to Completelybare.com, this has become a very popular procedure especially for special occasions such as valentines day, birthdays, weddings- for the bride to be, anniversaries, trips to the beach for that cute 2 piece or simply just because! 

What to expect at the spa:

Once there, you will be taken into a private room of course. If you need a Brazilian, that will be done first (the swarovski crystals can only be applied to freshly bare or shaved skin). If you've never had a Brazilian wax before, it consists of removing all hair from the roots using wax. Hair is removed from the front, back and everything in between of your vagina. This procedure does hurt a bit for a first timer, but it exfoliates the skin leaving it clean and hairless, ensuring a long lasting result which is about 3 weeks to 1 month of no hair.  OK, back to the procedure--Next, they will prepare the pubic area by cleaning it with alcohol, Second they will dry the skin, Third They will prepare the Swarovski Crystals in the shape desired, then peel the crystals off. Lastly, they will place them against your skin and press firmly for 30 seconds. Your vajazzle pattern should last at least a week. It's recommended to try and not wear tight fitted pants, the friction will rub the crystals off. Now your "lady part" is ready for its big day. 

If interested in seeing a quick sample demonstration check out the video below:

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So, will you be getting Vagazzled? Check your local area to see who does the Vagazzling if interested in blinging out your "lady part"! 

Until next time and as always...Thanks for checking out my blog: TwithTally!

7 Best Positions Known to Help Women Orgasm....

Happy Hump Day Guys!

In a recent conversation I had with a girlfriend, we discussed how surprisingly common it is for women to NOT have an orgasm during sex which is so unfortunate! So, I thought it would be interesting to do a post on it. As we know, women are internal creatures vs men being external. So as far as sex it's a bit more complicated for some women to reach that orgasm. This doesn't mean necessarily that the man isn't doing something right, it's really all about position and patience! 

Courtesy of Cosmopolitan.com, take a look at the top 7 positions that are known to help women reach that big (O)rgasm!!

The Criss-Cross Applesauce (O)

With all the twisting and bending that goes on, sometimes sex can feel more like a cardio workout than a pleasure-fest. That's why it's important to have at least one relaxed orgasm — inducing position in your repertoire. Such as this: While you're on your back, he should lie on his side, turned toward you. Swing both legs over his hips and thighs, making a bridge over them. Then, just let him gently thrust into you. If it takes you a while to climax, this pose is ideal. It's not very aerobic, so the sex can go on for a long time without either of you tiring out. When you want to climax, it's easy to touch yourself or he can use his top hand to stimulate you.

The Torrid Tabletop (O)

In some cases, a simple change of scenery can aid in achieving orgasm. For this move, you'll need a kitchen table — one that comes to your partner's waist. Lie down on the table with your butt near the edge. He then enters you while standing between your legs, holding on to your hips for leverage. You can rest your feet on his shoulders or on the edge of the table. Because he's standing, his hands are free to stroke your body. And he's at a perpendicular angle, rather than right on top of you, making it easier for him to touch your clitoris, unobstructed. To up your odds of orgasming, clench and lift up your butt, which will increase the pelvic tension and blood flow to the area.

                                            The Lusty Lap Dance (O)

This one's always a favorite :) — he sits and you straddle him so you're face-to-face. You have a lot of control over the speed, angle, and motion because you can use your arms and legs to help you maneuver. Rather than just moving up and down, which can be especially tiring for you, sway forward and back, rubbing your clitoral area against him. In addition to the freedom of movement, there are a few other benefits to this booty move. If you lean back just a little bit, you'll get greater G-spot stimulation and he'll be able to play with your clitoris. Plus, your breasts will be perfectly aligned with his mouth, adding a whole other layer to the sexual experience.

                                                 The Spooning (O)

Obviously, you know emotional attachment is essential to achieving orgasm with your guy. And there's no configuration that's more snugly than the spoon. To assume the position, simply lie on your side, your guy scooted up behind you. Rather than move in and out, he should stay inside you, gently thrusting against the front wall of your vagina. Aside from fulfilling your cuddly needs, it provides consistent stimulation to your G-spot, which is key for achieving orgasm from intercourse. Since he may not be able to penetrate you as deeply though, guide his hand around your hot spot. And just think: Once you've both climaxed, you'll be in perfect post coital position as well.

                                                 
                                              The Slow Climb (O)

 You'll never see missionary position the same way again. While on your back, put a pillow under your butt, lift your hips, and bring your legs up and back toward your shoulders, as though you're folding in half. This move allows him better ease of thrusting and deeper penetration — a perk for both of you. Plus, it can stimulate your G-spot. But consider this a warm-up — you're getting the zone primed for a more intense orgasm. Once your G-spot feels sufficiently stroked, put your legs down and have him get into coital-alignment-technique (CAT) position. He's on top, but he lifts his pelvic bone upward, aligning it with your clitoris. Then he rocks against the area until you peak. The legs-up position is a slow burn that brings you to the brink and increases sensitivity. Then the addition of clitoral rubbing takes you over the edge in a bigger way than if you had done CAT alone.

                                              
                                           The Doggy Style (O)

You've probably tried an all-fours pose before (at least, we hope you have!). But while mentally the doggie-style position has great bad-girl benefits, in order to make it actually orgasmic, you may need to modify it a bit. Lie on your stomach, lifting your butt slightly so he can enter you. Your partner can prop himself up with his hands in a push-up position or lie on top of you. Not only does this face down configuration provide increased friction as he moves in and out, but you can gently grind your clitoral area against the bed as well.

The Giddy Up (O)

Girl-on-top tends to be a go-to for achieving orgasm...and for good reason! It allows you to dictate the pace and depth of thrusting, but mainly, you have easy access to your clitoris. You can touch your C-spot, have him touch it, or rub against his pubic bone to achieve orgasm. But you can up the ante by literally pulling a 180. Twist around so you're pointed toward his feet in reverse cowgirl position. Instead of straddling him, put your legs together, feet flat between his legs. The benefits of this are twofold: With your legs together, the fit is even tighter, making the sensations more intense. Plus, there's increased G-spot stimulation, which combined with your own clitoral strokes, makes for an explosive orgasm.

Last but NOT least...The Right Minded (O) Getting In The Zone

When it comes to achieving supreme pleasure, being in the right mind-set is half the battle!

Let your thoughts wander- It helps to transport yourself mentally to a sexy place. Fantasize that you're getting it on in a lust-inspiring environment like the beach, the hot tub etc. 

Strengthen your senses- Certain smells and sounds can have a Pavlovian affect on your libido. Think about what puts you in the mood, and then designate an enhancer that will signal to your brain and body that it's time to get naughty. For example, before sex, put his favorite scent of yours and play a sultry CD.

Be selfish- Worrying too much about your guy's pleasure means you wind up ignoring your own. So silence the inner monologue of "How am I doing?" and simply enjoy the experience. Otherwise, it becomes more work than play.

Stay on course- A stressful day's memories can still manage to sneak up on you, even when you're in mid-session. To stay in the moment, try to focus your thoughts purely on the physical and pay attention to how every touch, lick, and stroke feels.

Hope you guys enjoyed these tips. I'm sure these positions have already been tried but having the knowledge behind each one helps! If you have tried them out, and didn't reach that big (O)...give it a go again! Practice makes perfect right?

Until next time and as always...Thanks for checking out my blog: TwithTally!

Natural Aphrodisiacs Known To Improve Your Sex Life...

It's Wednesday guys so you know what that means...."Hump Day" Talk!! 

You guys know when we do "Hump Day" talk, I'm simply giving advice/tips on how to possibly improve your sex life and/or just new tips that you can try out or share with others! Today I thought it'd be cool to explore the natural aphrodisiacs our bodies supposedly have a positive sexual reaction to.

Most of us want to be great at anything we do right? Does that include sex also? If you're sexually active within your relationship, I'm sure you always want to be on your A-game from your sexual arousal to your sexual performance and aphrodisiacs are known to help awaken your sexual desire which will then increase your sex...so they say!

Over time, studies show that men and women have tried almost anything that was called an aphrodisiac, no matter how unappetizing or bizarre because there's always a constant search for better sex! The more extreme aphrodisiacs that I wouldn't dare try (lol) are eels, elephant tusk, lion blood, bull testicles, rhino horn, ram penis, & pig genitals. Now I don't know about you guys but I'm just not that curious-lol! Plus, where in the world do you find those things?? 

OK, back to the well known, not so weird and more commonly used aphrodisiacs! 

Here's just a small list:

Oysters- Contain zinc which is an essential mineral for men needed for sperm production. Oysters are also known to release testosterone in women.

Shrimp- High in iodine which is needed by the thyroid gland that regulates energy including sexual energy.

Chocolate- Includes caffeine and a plant substance called phytosteral that mimics human sex hormones.

Pineapples- Actually anything citrus based can help. If you consume pineapple or even drink a glass of orange juice about 6-8 hours before sexual activity, you will actually smell and taste slightly sweeter than usual which is a win win for you and your partner :)!!


While these natural aphrodisiacs wont work for everyone, they're all cheap, easy and fun ways to experiment! Try one or try all...It cant hurt to try right?


Until next time and as always...Thanks for checking out my blog: TwithTally! 

Can Sex Toys Help or Hurt Your Relationship?

As we've said before with MOST relationships, at times the sex can become "commonplace" so to speak which is ultimately boring! Many have turned to sex toys as an option to spice things up and I say go for it!

Sex is simply a form of intamacy we crave. Sex can also be a stress reliever due to the hormones that are released during sexual intercourse that calm the body and every muscle in your body. 

For me, there is NO shame in having a healthy sex life and adding sex toys in the mix is a sure way to help! If you aren't a person against toys, try one. Once you find a sex toy that works for you...you'll be hooked!! Not only will you be hooked by the way it makes you feel but also by the intensed, heightened pleasure that you and your partner will receive. 

Take a look at just a few sex toys big on the market today:

Tickle Surprise- It's just what it says!! 

Rabbit-style vibes have everything: there's a shaft for penetration, which contains rotating balls for G-spot stimulation, and the bunny-ear attachment vibrates against your clitoris (or turn it 180 degree to vibrate against your perineum while you manually stroke your clitoris). This one is waterproof and has three speed variations; start on the lowest and work your way up for a knee-trembler!

Done rabbiting? Try rocking instead. This U-shaped vibe is inserted so the hooked end presses into your G-spot while the external leg vibrates against your clitoris (like having a man's finger inside you and his thumb against your clit). Loaded with the RO 80mm bullet vibe, it's powerful, the medical-grade hypo-allergenic silicone feels sensual and it's waterproof (handy for G-spot orgasms!).

For a tiny vibe, this punches above its weight, administering acute vibrations at a twist of the tube. Great for partner sex (no man could be intimidated by a little girly lipstick, right?), and you can take it anywhere - and, more importantly, accidentally drop it without anyone pointing and laughing. Just make sure friends don't attempt to borrow your ‘lipstick' when you're not there.


Sex toys can unlock a secret world full of passion and unending ecstasy!! Pleasure your partner's inner curiosity, every need and desire with a little help from a sex toy! Don't knock it 'til you try it!

Oh...and comment! Leave your thoughts or experience's ...don't be scurred-lol!

Until next time and as always...Thanks for checking out my blog: TwithTally!

Spice It Up..."Hump Day" Part 2!

It's that time again guys....Spice it Up "Hump Day" talk!!!

"Spice it Up" edition is simply my tips and or advice on how to spice up your relationship. As the title states this is actually part 2 of Spice it up. So if you haven't checked out the first post, scroll down & do so now!! You don't want to miss out on any tips that may be able to help you or someone you know!

As I warned you in the first post...sip this tea slow because it's coming to you HOT!! 

So, let's jump right into it!

*Fun with baby oil*...As I sit and type this, I think I should have entitled this one "hot n messy" and you'll read why! First off, playing around with oils can be so much fun AND adds some heat to your situation! To get "hot n messy" you're going to need two items! 1) baby oil and 2) a shower curtain liner! Yes, you read it right a shower curtain liner-lol! Now, when incorporating oils into your fun it can get pretty messy! That's where the shower liner comes into play! It's basic fun. You first lay out the shower liner onto your bed or floor. Then massage the oil all over each other and don't be stingy the more oil the better! Once both of you are all oiled up it'll be like the game slip n slide (remember that or am I telling my age) lol! Talk about lots of fun! Try it! Go out and grab you some baby oil & a shower liner & have some fun! Oh....of course don't forget to set the ambiance by dimming your lights & lighting some candles!

*Roses as your lingerie*...Okay! Photo shoot time! But, this is not what you think, the norm roses spread all around. Nah...this is a bit sexier! We all love the element of surprise right? Well, you'll be sure to surprise your love with this one! For this particular photo shoot you'll need four items! 1) a bottle of baby oil gel, not oil make sure it's the gel! 2) a jar of honey, 3) your rose petals and last but not least a camera of course (whether it be a cannon or your cell phone)!! After you've got all pretty with hair and makeup it's time to get sexxxxy :)! Put on your baby oil gel and be sure to apply a generous amount. The goal is to have your skin soft and glowing! Now, grab your jar of honey & dab a small amount wherever you want to place the roses on your body! For example...on the nipple area of your breast, along your sides, down your stomach etc. Get creative...put them in the shape of his initial, make swirl patterns, make a heart shape etc. Wherever you place the honey, the petals are sure to stick and trust me it turns out great!! He'll love snapping these flicks just not sure how many he can stand to take -:)!! If you want to surprise him and make it a gift for valentine's day, his b-day or just because, have your bff or someone you're comfy with take the photos of you & that way you can surprise him! You can find rose petals by the bag at your local florist and even the supermarket at times in the floral department!  Try this...it'll be a photo shoot to remember! 

*Edible Fun*...Are you a fan of edible "candy pants" for men? Known as edible panties for women. Well, if you are then you may agree when I say they are gross and taste like plastic! Yuck! But, that doesn't mean the fun has to stop...just make your own! Ah-ha...ever thought about that one? I'm sure many of you have and probably have even tried this out. You're not really "making" them just making something into "candy pants" & that something is......(drum roll)......a FRUIT ROLL UP!! Yep! Fruit roll ups aren't just for kids or for that occasional sweet tooth! They can also be for "adult fun"! That way when used as "candy pants" on your love it actually adds some flavor and doesn't taste like your consuming plastic! You know the saying from the tootsie roll lolly pop right? "How many licks does it take to get to the center of a tootsie pop".  Well ...spice it up even more and apply that to the "candy pants" if you know what I mean *wink*! Every time my husband & I are over someones house & we see fruit roll ups in their kitchen, we just look at each other & smirk! Try it out! I bet you wont look at fruit roll ups the same! 

*Shower Surprise*...Pretty simple but effective! Being spontaneous is key a lot of times. As I said in the first "Spice It Up" post....YOU CANT BE BORING & YOU CANT CONTINUOUSLY DO THE NORM! A shower surprise is just that! Nothing wrong with asking if you can hop in with him but I think it's much more fun if you just hop in on your own! Let him get in first. If you like (this part is totally up to you), light a nice scented candle and take it with you into the bathroom, Turn the lights off and hop in. Not only will this surprise him but it'll excite him also! We all need attention and it's nice to get it unexpectedly! Sometimes the most simple gestures are remembered the most! 

*I See You*....Incorporate mirrors into the fun! Visuals do wonders!! If you don't have a mirrored ceiling as most of us don't, incorporate the hanging door mirror. Not sure what it is about seeing yourself hot in the moment but it awakens the creativity! Just like when taking a "selfie" you adjust your face until you think it's cute and then you snap right? Well, it's the same thing! If you can see your movements, your expressions, his expressions & his movements you inner curiosity will kick in and you'll have an urge to want to go harder! They say go hard or go home right? Give it a try!

*Press Play*...Last but definitely not least are adult films. Do you prefer to watch them or make them?? Not everybody is comfortable watching adult films. Some people feel it's gross to see adults have sex and that is totally your prerogative! Adult films are known to help, teach and or spice things up! If you are one that's comfortable watching them, then pop one in, sit back & let time takes it's course!! Somethings bound to jump off! Now, if your comfort level with adult films is on another level then you can make your own! This can be tricky though! We've all heard those horror stories of the tape "mysteriously" disappearing and you don't ever want that! For that reason, you have to be 100% convinced that this person is worthy and deserving of this treat! I personally think this is the treat of all treats!! But, Being put on film is a lifetime thing & in the words of the "Queen B" aka Beyonce...."if you like it then you shoulda' put a ring on it"! My opinion...You give lifetime treats when you have a lifetime commitment! But, if you're not worried about those horror stories & are willing to experiment with the camera...then be a star & make a movie to remember!! 

Hope you found part 2 of my tips on how to "Spice it Up" interesting and willing to give them a try! If you do, come back, leave a comment and let me know what spice you added! 

Until next time and as always thanks for checking out my blog: TwithTally!

Spice It Up..."Hump Day" Edition!!!

In some relationships, especially relationships with longevity may experience a "stand still" so to speak when it comes to the spice. It may be because of the "same routine" or one or both partners have become "lack luster" and or too comfortable. Either way, you DO NOT want to loose that fire that was once their in the beginning. After all, that's one of the many things that kept you interested right? Well, if you've lost some spice or just entertaining new ways to keep the spice, this article is for you! By doing some or all of these tips...you're sure to keep your partner interested in you & attracted to you! 

Now sip this tea with caution honey, 'cause I'm serving it HOT!!! 

Ready...Set...Go!!

*Role Playing*...Role playing can be so many different things. You can verbally role play aka talking dirty! When it comes to spice you CAN NOT be boring! Talking dirty allows you to show a different side that may usually be "reserved". It will definitely help the mood and get both of you guys in the swing of things. Role playing can also be playing dress up which is always a win-win! Whether it's slipping into something your love likes to see you in or "special character outfits". We all know the naughty student and the teacher, the "girl next door" you'd never know came out to play or the infamous cops and robbers. Now who plays what role is up to you! Go to your local pleasure store and pic up a couple fits and do some role playing tonight! 

*Date Night*...You can have date night at home or away from home. If having date night at home you can do several things. Sometimes men need to know that you can have fun at home too and its not just about spending money! So, show him dating at home can be fun! One way is by cooking a favorite meal of his with a nice wine or champagne. After dinner, play a game like naked twister or dare no truth....just dare (wink)! Another fun game to play is "roll the dice to that position" (which can also be found at your local Pleasure stores). Whatever position the dice lands on, you HAVE to do it! No if, ands or buts! P.S. you may need to sign up to a Pilate's class after that game..ha ha! But, if you choose date night away from home, pick a nice romantic restaurant that's sure to set the mood. I.e....restaurants on the water, dimly lit restaurants etc. After all date night is about fun and romance!!

*Fun w/Glow in the dark Body Paint*...Whew!!! Now THIS is funners!!!!! It's all about painting a picture right? Hm....well paint your picture on your love and vice versa!!! Yes!!! You're sure to have a "body party" with this. Not only is it fun but its extra sexy in my opinion! The feel of your touch to his body and vice versa will heat it up for sure! Once your all painted up from him, he's probably going to give you that "now what" look! Well...the fun doesn't have to end there! Now is the time for you to throw in a dance for him. Put on some music you feel you can move your body to. While your body is dancing, so is his mind-TRUST me! All he'll see is the silhouette of your body with bright fun colors. Yes....I'm having flashbacks as I type-lol! My husband LOVED this! You can purchase glow in the dark paint just about anywhere. I purchased mine from Walmart. So, give it a try! Be creative, be sexy, be seductive!! Who said your canvas had to be paper! Like the legend Jay-Z says...Picasso baby!

*Leave Love Trails*...Love trails are super cute! The goal is to randomly place them strategically around the house where your love can find them! For example, In the morning you can leave a note on their clothes for that day or in the bathroom by essentials like his shaving materials etc. If he's a coffee or tea drinker, leave it on the coffee or tea pot. If he has to grab his lunch out the fridge leave it on the fridge or better yet....slip it inside his lunch so he'll find it at lunch time. You basically want to remind your love that you love them at the most random times!! So invest in some post-it notes and give it a go!!

*The Infamous Blind Fold*...So, of course when your eyes are covered you don't know what to expect, which is sooooooo much fun in the bedroom!! If you always know what to expect then your going back to the norm which is no fun at all!! Play the guessing game! You basically can use what you choose from ice, fruits, honey etc. With him blindfolded or vice versa, you have to guess the fruit from the feel no tasting ...yet! When playing with ice, honey etc...be your own Picasso again and seductively paint a picture on his body! Cold ice on a hot body will cause a good friction you wont regret! So, go out and get you a blind fold or a nice clean silk scarf. Please don't use your night scarf ladies-lol Just kidding...well no I'm not! :)

*Ambiance is EVERYTHING*...Last but definitely not least is your ambiance!! In my opinion ambiance says a lot. Just like your home, you want it clean, smelling good & inviting. Well, its no different when setting a romantic setting for your love! Candles especially scented candles not only smell great but are very sexy too!!! Also, adding music is a plus for the ambiance. Good tunes gives good vibes! Depending on the tunes, you either want to dance or make love! So light some candles, dim the lights, play some music & focus on nothing but the two of you!

Hope you guys enjoyed some of my views/tips on how to "spice it up"! Try them out if you haven't already & I'll be back with more soon!

Until next time and as always...Thanks for checking out my blog: TwithTally!