Girls Love Bags!!!

First off let me start by saying T.G.I.F!!!!! Woo-Hoo!! We've survived another week!! I'm sure you're ready to enjoy the wknd (I know I am) BUT before you do that, we can't forget about FAB Find Friday's! :)

As the title reads "Girls LOVE Bags"! This post will be FAB Finds feat. ALDO! ALDO normally has some cute pieces from shoes, handbags, & accessories. Yesterday, I did a quick mall run and I stopped in ALDO. While I didn't see any shoes I liked, I did see some really cute and affordable or as we say "FAB Find" handbags!

What girly-girl doesn't LOVE a cute handbag??? When you find one, let me know! There's so many styles to choose from. From Hobo's, Shoulder bags/Totes, Cross body bags/Messenger bags and Clutches/Evening bags... there's one for every occasion!!

Take a look at the "FAB Find" handbags I loved from Aldo!

"Helondricks" $55.00

"Wisecarver" $50.00

"Ullum" $60.00

"Cyd" $25.00

"Bahamonde" $20.00

"Bergeron" $29.98 (sale price) Reg. $40.00

"Flussio" $29.98 (sale price) Reg. $45.00

"Duboise" $40.00

Hope you guys liked my choices of "FAB Find" handbags featuring ALDO! 

Of course these bags as most do come in a variation of colors, so if you like one of the above bags but not the particular color I chose, head over to Aldoshoes.com and check them out for yourself! I've listed the name of each bag under the pic if interested!

Until next time and as always...Thanks for checking out my blog: TwithTally!

11 Weird Celebrity Beauty Secrets!!!

We all have our beauty secrets and/or beauty routines that we like! I've shared a lot of tips in past post on health & beauty but thought this one was quite interesting to say the least! When researching new beauty tips for myself and also to share with you guys, I came across this interesting article via: Womenshealthmag.com. 

As the title reads: 11 Weird Celebrity Beauty Secrets- 

Check out these weird tips some celebrity's say they use and how it helps them out!!

1. Miranda Kerr uses lip balm as a shimmery highlighter around her eyes

EXPERT OPINION: Try it! "This will work, just stick to a natural product. A lip gloss will clog your pores and will also be pretty sticky," says New York based makeup artist Stefanie Syat. Dab some plain lip balm on the inner corners of your eyes. 

2. Catherine Zeta-Jones keeps her hair looking hot by dousing it in beer

EXPERT OPINION: Try it! "The alcohol removes any buildup that sits on the surface of the hair," says Amy Mrkurnic, a senior colorist at Oscar Blondi salon in New York. After you shampoo, towel dry, then massage a cupful or so of beer into your strands. Cover with plastic wrap for five minutes, then rinse. Any kind of brew is okay, so skip the pricey craft options and use up those mystery cans in the back of your fridge. 

3. Snooki swears by kitty litter to exfoliate

EXPERT OPINION: Skip it. The clumpy texture of the litter may remind you of a mud mask, but the clay particles are far larger than what you'd find in a substance formulated for skin. "These particles can cause micro scratches, which can lead to inflammation and blotchiness," explains Lezandra Berchik, an esthetician at Bliss Spa Los Angeles.

Not only that, but the moisture-sucking properties of the kitty litter—courtesy of the mineral silica—will have the same effect on your skin, leading to dehydration. As if that weren't enough to deter you, keep in mind that the "fresh scent" designed to mask any odors isn't exactly an aphrodisiac.

TRY THIS INSTEAD: Plain baking soda, either mixed with water or your favorite cleanser, will help clean out pores without any of the irritation.

4. Denise Richards puts avocado on her hair for deep conditioning results

EXPERT OPINION: Try it! "I do this one myself," says Mrkurnic. "To make it even more effective, combine the avocado with one tablespoon of olive oil." Slather onto your strands, but avoid the scalp itself—that'll make your hair look overly oily.

5. Jennifer Love Hewitt calms zits with toothpaste

EXPERT OPINION: Skip it. "We hear this 'trick' all the time, but it doesn't work. In fact, it can make a blemish worse," says Berchik. So why do people still try it? "Abrasives in the toothpaste, like calcium carbonate, will dry the blemish so it looks better. But it does nothing to rid it of bacteria, and the detergents and flavoring in the formula will irritate your skin."

TRY THIS INSTEAD: Stick to the tried-and-true treatments, says Berchik. "A product needs to contain either benzoyl peroxide or salicylic acid to properly treat the blemish."

6. Lady Gaga uses tape to remove eye makeup

EXPERT OPINION: Try it—with caution. "Glitter can be especially hard to remove, so tape does the trick," says Syat. "Fabric tape will be the most gentle on your skin." But if your skin is super sensitive or prone to redness, avoid this option and stick with makeup remover.

7. Sienna Miller fixes hair color flaws with ketchup

EXPERT OPINION: Skip. When she accidentally used henna—a vibrant, all natural dye—on her blond strands, Miller said the only thing that got rid of the color was soaking her hair in ketchup, but colorists question this at-home remedy. "Henna is a stain, so it's not going away easily," says Mrkurnic. "I've never heard of this one."

TRY THIS INSTEAD: A color correction is best done in the salon, but if you're in a pinch and need the color out, stat, Mrkurnic recommends combining 90% rubbing alcohol with mineral oil. "Make a three to one ratio of the alcohol with the mineral oil, mix together, and massage through your hair. Then, wrap your hair in plastic and apply heat for 10 minutes to fade any color."

 

8. Lisa Rinna uses cinnamon oil for a plumped-up pout

EXPERT OPINION: Try it—with caution. "Adding a few drops of cinnamon oil to a lip gloss will give some added oomph," says Patrice Evangeline, a New York City based makeup artist. But the trick won't make your lips puff up to Angeline Jolie proportions, and makeup artists warn to spot check the oil against a patch of skin first to make sure you don't have any adverse effect.

9. Teri Hatcher adds red wine to the bath to soften her skin

EXPERT OPINION: Skip it. "Red wine in the tub could work because wine contains tartaric acid, an alpha hydroxyl agent that can exfoliate," says Berchik. But don't raise a glass yet. Berchik warns that it would take a few bottles to notice an effect and the wine could irritate any minor scratches on the skin.

10. Miranda Kerr uses a spoon instead of an eyelash curler for a wide-eyed look

EXPERT OPINION: Try it! "For best results, run the spoon under hot water or give it a quick blast of the blow dryer," suggests Evangeline. "With the bowl-part facing upward, use your thumb to hold your lashes against the curve and turn upward."

11. January Jones bounced back from pregnancy partially because she took supplements made from her own placenta

EXPERT OPINION: Skip it. "There have been no scientifically demonstrated benefits of placenta ingestion for humans," says Mark Kristal, PH.D., professor of psychology at the University of Buffalo, whose research has focused on placenta ingestion. So why do so many new moms insist that it has healing powers? "Placenta ingestion has been shown to benefit nonhuman mammals," explains Kristal. "But the fact that no human cultures, past or present, routinely engage in this practice suggest that evolutionary-wise, there may have been something detrimental to ingesting placenta." 

                                         

Now, out of the 11 tips I think 3 were really "weird" for me anyway. What 3 do you think I'm referencing? If you thought #3, #6 and #7 then you were absolutely right! With #3 coming in at #1 for the weirdest! I've NEVER heard of someone using or even thinking of using cat litter to exfoliate! Have you? Is it just me? I know I've said "don't knock it til you try it" but don't think I'll be able to add that one to the list! If you try it or any of these weird beauty tips, come back and let me know!

Until next time and as always...Thanks for checking out my blog: TwithTally!

Vacation Recap!!!

OK guys, feels like I've been gone FOREVER! I really missed blogging :( , but while on vacation we (my husband and I) always make a vow to NOT indulge in social media, telephone calls, text messages etc. (unless it's an emergency of course) and to just focus on us! Which I think is a really good idea because you have those things on a normal day which can and will get addictive and distract you from your focal point!

We chose to end our summer off with a BEAUTIFUL 7day/6night Western Caribbean cruise with Carnival Cruise Lines. We LOVE cruises!! A lot of people think they're just for seniors but I totally disagree! There's always lots of young people along with us having a good time! 

On this cruise we flew into Miami, Fl where the boat departed. The ports of call we traveled to were Grand Turks, Turks and Cacos, Ocho Rios, Jamaica and Nassau Bahamas and oh what a beautiful trip it was!!!! I think this was one of the best yet! It was perfect weather everywhere, the food on board was excellent as always and not to mention FREE!!! I've included some pics below or shall I say I went pic overboard-lol! Just wanted to share with you guys what we experienced while away! 

Take a look....

                                

Me chillin in Ocho Rios, Jamaica

Cant find a payphone in DC!

The Fashion District in Nassau!!

Nassau Bahamas pretty seashells!

Bushman Bob in Ocho Rios, Jamaica!

Had to capture this one! 

Our ship-The Carnival Breeze!

Over proof Jamaican Rum- Wray & Nephew!

Our tour guide "The Original"!

Beautiful Island of Ocho Rios, Jamaica!

Just ya girl-me In Turks!

Just lovely! 

Chillin- Boat Life!

Passports- a MUST have!

Pure Beauty!

Gorgeous Miami Fl!

National Symbols in Ocho Rios, Jamaica!

Backyard beach for the locals of Ocho Rios, Jamaica!

House of Legends!! The late great Peter Tosh and Bob Marley along with The rolling Stones called this place home!!

Roasting in the Jamaica sun!

Bonsai Sushi! 1st meal on board!

After dinner on the cruise!


Hope you guys enjoyed the pics I've shared! I had an awesome time with my husband and I'm already looking forward to our next vacation-lol!

Until next time and as always...Thanks for checking out my blog: TwithTally!

7 Best Positions Known to Help Women Orgasm....

Happy Hump Day Guys!

In a recent conversation I had with a girlfriend, we discussed how surprisingly common it is for women to NOT have an orgasm during sex which is so unfortunate! So, I thought it would be interesting to do a post on it. As we know, women are internal creatures vs men being external. So as far as sex it's a bit more complicated for some women to reach that orgasm. This doesn't mean necessarily that the man isn't doing something right, it's really all about position and patience! 

Courtesy of Cosmopolitan.com, take a look at the top 7 positions that are known to help women reach that big (O)rgasm!!

The Criss-Cross Applesauce (O)

With all the twisting and bending that goes on, sometimes sex can feel more like a cardio workout than a pleasure-fest. That's why it's important to have at least one relaxed orgasm — inducing position in your repertoire. Such as this: While you're on your back, he should lie on his side, turned toward you. Swing both legs over his hips and thighs, making a bridge over them. Then, just let him gently thrust into you. If it takes you a while to climax, this pose is ideal. It's not very aerobic, so the sex can go on for a long time without either of you tiring out. When you want to climax, it's easy to touch yourself or he can use his top hand to stimulate you.

The Torrid Tabletop (O)

In some cases, a simple change of scenery can aid in achieving orgasm. For this move, you'll need a kitchen table — one that comes to your partner's waist. Lie down on the table with your butt near the edge. He then enters you while standing between your legs, holding on to your hips for leverage. You can rest your feet on his shoulders or on the edge of the table. Because he's standing, his hands are free to stroke your body. And he's at a perpendicular angle, rather than right on top of you, making it easier for him to touch your clitoris, unobstructed. To up your odds of orgasming, clench and lift up your butt, which will increase the pelvic tension and blood flow to the area.

                                            The Lusty Lap Dance (O)

This one's always a favorite :) — he sits and you straddle him so you're face-to-face. You have a lot of control over the speed, angle, and motion because you can use your arms and legs to help you maneuver. Rather than just moving up and down, which can be especially tiring for you, sway forward and back, rubbing your clitoral area against him. In addition to the freedom of movement, there are a few other benefits to this booty move. If you lean back just a little bit, you'll get greater G-spot stimulation and he'll be able to play with your clitoris. Plus, your breasts will be perfectly aligned with his mouth, adding a whole other layer to the sexual experience.

                                                 The Spooning (O)

Obviously, you know emotional attachment is essential to achieving orgasm with your guy. And there's no configuration that's more snugly than the spoon. To assume the position, simply lie on your side, your guy scooted up behind you. Rather than move in and out, he should stay inside you, gently thrusting against the front wall of your vagina. Aside from fulfilling your cuddly needs, it provides consistent stimulation to your G-spot, which is key for achieving orgasm from intercourse. Since he may not be able to penetrate you as deeply though, guide his hand around your hot spot. And just think: Once you've both climaxed, you'll be in perfect post coital position as well.

                                                 
                                              The Slow Climb (O)

 You'll never see missionary position the same way again. While on your back, put a pillow under your butt, lift your hips, and bring your legs up and back toward your shoulders, as though you're folding in half. This move allows him better ease of thrusting and deeper penetration — a perk for both of you. Plus, it can stimulate your G-spot. But consider this a warm-up — you're getting the zone primed for a more intense orgasm. Once your G-spot feels sufficiently stroked, put your legs down and have him get into coital-alignment-technique (CAT) position. He's on top, but he lifts his pelvic bone upward, aligning it with your clitoris. Then he rocks against the area until you peak. The legs-up position is a slow burn that brings you to the brink and increases sensitivity. Then the addition of clitoral rubbing takes you over the edge in a bigger way than if you had done CAT alone.

                                              
                                           The Doggy Style (O)

You've probably tried an all-fours pose before (at least, we hope you have!). But while mentally the doggie-style position has great bad-girl benefits, in order to make it actually orgasmic, you may need to modify it a bit. Lie on your stomach, lifting your butt slightly so he can enter you. Your partner can prop himself up with his hands in a push-up position or lie on top of you. Not only does this face down configuration provide increased friction as he moves in and out, but you can gently grind your clitoral area against the bed as well.

The Giddy Up (O)

Girl-on-top tends to be a go-to for achieving orgasm...and for good reason! It allows you to dictate the pace and depth of thrusting, but mainly, you have easy access to your clitoris. You can touch your C-spot, have him touch it, or rub against his pubic bone to achieve orgasm. But you can up the ante by literally pulling a 180. Twist around so you're pointed toward his feet in reverse cowgirl position. Instead of straddling him, put your legs together, feet flat between his legs. The benefits of this are twofold: With your legs together, the fit is even tighter, making the sensations more intense. Plus, there's increased G-spot stimulation, which combined with your own clitoral strokes, makes for an explosive orgasm.

Last but NOT least...The Right Minded (O) Getting In The Zone

When it comes to achieving supreme pleasure, being in the right mind-set is half the battle!

Let your thoughts wander- It helps to transport yourself mentally to a sexy place. Fantasize that you're getting it on in a lust-inspiring environment like the beach, the hot tub etc. 

Strengthen your senses- Certain smells and sounds can have a Pavlovian affect on your libido. Think about what puts you in the mood, and then designate an enhancer that will signal to your brain and body that it's time to get naughty. For example, before sex, put his favorite scent of yours and play a sultry CD.

Be selfish- Worrying too much about your guy's pleasure means you wind up ignoring your own. So silence the inner monologue of "How am I doing?" and simply enjoy the experience. Otherwise, it becomes more work than play.

Stay on course- A stressful day's memories can still manage to sneak up on you, even when you're in mid-session. To stay in the moment, try to focus your thoughts purely on the physical and pay attention to how every touch, lick, and stroke feels.

Hope you guys enjoyed these tips. I'm sure these positions have already been tried but having the knowledge behind each one helps! If you have tried them out, and didn't reach that big (O)...give it a go again! Practice makes perfect right?

Until next time and as always...Thanks for checking out my blog: TwithTally!

GO PINK!!!

October has rolled in and this post is in honor of Breast Cancer Awareness!! 

Breast Cancer has hit close to home for me as well as so many others. If you don't personally now someone living with or that has lived with with this evil disease, I'm sure you know someone that knows someone affected by Breast Cancer! 

The key is EARLY detection!!! Take time out for your health and get checked! Early detection can save your life! The goal of screening exams for early breast cancer detection is to find cancers BEFORE 

they start to cause symptoms. 

Here are some breast cancer risk factors you cannot change:

Gender: Simply being a woman is the main risk factor for developing breast cancer. Men can develop breast cancer, but this disease is about 100 times more common among women than men. This is probably because men have less of the female hormones estrogen and 

progesterone, which can promote breast cancer cell growth. 

Aging: Your risk of developing breast cancer increases as you get older. About 1 out of 8 invasive breast cancers are found in women younger than 45, while about 2 of 3 invasive breast cancers are found in women age 55 or older. 

Family history of breast cancer:  Breast cancer risk is higher among women whose close blood relatives have this disease. Having a first-degree relative (mother, sister, or daughter) with breast cancer almost 

doubles a woman's risk. Having 2 first-degree relatives increases her risk about 3-fold. Although the exact risk is not known, women with a family history of breast cancer in a father or brother also have an increased risk of breast cancer. Overall, less than 15% of women with breast cancer have a family member with this disease. This means that most (85%) women who get breast cancer do not have a family history of this disease. 

Personal history of breast cancer: A woman with cancer in one breast has a 3- to 4-fold increased risk of developing a new cancer in the other breast or in another part of the same breast. This is different from a recurrence (return) of the first cancer. 

Race and ethnicity: Overall, white women are slightly more likely to develop breast cancer than are African American women, but African-American women are more likely to die of this cancer. In women under 45 years of age, however, breast cancer is more common in African American women. Asian, Hispanic, and Native American women have a lower risk of developing and dying from breast cancer. 

If you don't already, please self check!! If you're not aware of how to, see the chart below showing you how to properly self check monthly!

This chart is not only helpful but also easy to do! So, do this monthly! Tell each and every woman you know to also do this very important self check, you could be saving a life!

Until next time and as always...Thanks for checking out my blog: TwithTally!